Disclaimer: Everything Expressed in the blog is from personal experience. I did not intend to hurt anyone personally.
Ever since i figured out the difference between a man and a woman, I have come across various faces of a Woman. A mother, A wife, A Friend, A Teacher... and so on....
Woman have been and are an important part of every man's life, either it be good or bad.
From childhood I have been listening to Sayings about Women.
"Woman is shakhti"("Women means strength")
"A Woman is responsible for all the Major conflicts", people quote examples of Sita and Draupadi from hindu mythology for this Quote.
" Karyeshu daasi, Karaneshu Mantri, Bhojeyshu Maatha ,Shayaneshu Rambha" , The Ideal Women is the one who plays the role of a Nurse, A minister when advice is needed, Mother while feeding and She is compared to the heavenly Hynm Rambha in bed.
The most famous one " Behind every Successful Man there is a Woman".. but the best part however is the continuation " Because Women don't run behind unsuccessful men".
However I feel that Today's women are very much different from the women of the times when these saying were popular. Today's women are Confused, Courageous, Crazy, Cute. OMG did i just mention the 4 C's that describe today's woman... People this is just a brain fart excuse me for it.
Women say we are equal to men, we can work as hard as men, we are as strong as men.
Men from India if you really want to see the weaker side of Indian women the only thing you need to do is Get into a government bus and sit in the Ladies Seat.... See the Looks the women give you... I fail to see .." oh look I am stronger than you I can afford to stand"... Its more like
" You bastard cant you see its a seat reserved for ladies".... sometimes its not just the looks... even the words... " yeah cant u see, its a ladies seat".
Before I forget what I am thinking let me quickly brief you about the 4 C's which describe the women of today.
Confused: Confused because they are unsure of what they want.
Q: How do I choose a Job?
A: Do I choose a Job which pays well, Which is good for higher studies, Which will give me time to spend with my family and friends, Where i can do less work and get paid more.... Etc
Q: Do I like this Guy?
A: Does he have a car, Is he hairy,Does he have blue eyes, Does he have gold tooth, Does he have a Masters Degree, Does his mother have enough gold, Bank balance, Will he keep me happy.....
Give me a break girls....
Women are probably one of those human being who can answer a question with a Question.
An other very famous encounter is shopping. Guys go for shopping with a Girl/Woman and you'll realise how confused they are . If they are so confused about a top which they are probably going to wear for a month, I don't blame them for being so confused about a job or a guy...
Courageous: I admit women in today's world are more courageous, than ever.
Gandhiji once said " The day a Woman walks alone freely at mid-night, That day India has gained independence truly". India Really has gained Independence. Thanks to Indian Women like Kiran Bedi who are setting an example for Women in India. We have other great examples like Sheela Dixit, Mamtha Banorjee(oops that's bengali style), Sushma Swaraj etc.
There are bigger examples of women who have survived in this so called male dominant society in India Ms. Mayawathi and Ms. Rabri Devi.
Today's Indian Women are truly courageous.
Crazy: This is my favourite. Crazy Women are not new to me and I am sure every guy would have experienced Crazy women.
Few Examples of a Crazy women:
1) Woman who wants you to write a slam book 4 days after you meet her.
2) Woman who stops talking to you because you told her you drink/Smoke. ( I dint know drinking/Smoking was a disease)
3) Women who take forward MSG seriously.
4) Women who but things and then exchange them the next day :)(Not all people who exchange are crazy there are exceptions)
So guys who have not come across crazy women... Be on the watch.....
Cute: Cute and easy going women/girls are also a part of the Indian society. Women who are light hearted . Who understand whats a joke and what the person actually meant. Who think but logically and not foolishly. Women who can think from an intelligent guys point of view.Women who can differentiate who is good and who is bad. Women who accept people they way they are.
I would say cute is actually the way feel they are ... different people might have different words to describe them...
However all women might not fall into a 'C' perfectly , some women may be a combination of two or more 'Cs'
So that's about Women.....Rather Indian Women....
Now guys, it depends on what you are looking for ...Believe me if you are just looking for a girl.... Its not difficult.... " Ek maango , hazar miljaengi"( "Ask for one you'll find a thousand") ... If you are looking for "THE"girl then it is difficult......
In today's world its easy to be kishna.... Gopikas can be hired.....
If you wanna be Rama then its kind of difficult.. because Sitas are kind of extinct... keep looking guys if you are lucky u may find one.... If you have found one good for you.. if u have not... best of luck
A friend once told me " Girls don't like things ready on the plate" .... Yeah may be its true.. this bought a thought to my mind... Your feelings for a girl/ Woman should be like a fruit... Not to be expressed too early... because they are raw... not to be expressed too late because they are rotten... and to be expressed only at the right time when they are ripe and sweet... There are exceptions though where they don't even have to be a fruit... they just have to be something good to look at like a flower.. or a puppy....
Best of luck to the guys for finding a girl with the right C combination.
Cheers
